BE HIS/HER ISLAND.
No relationship is easy, but... No relationship should be the death of you, either mentally, emotionally, physically or spiritually.
IT TAKES TWO PEOPLE, WITH CLEAR AGREED GOALS, WHO ARE WILLING AND ACTIVELY PULLING THEIR WEIGHT, AND EACH OTHER'S, FOR INTERDEPENDENCE AND SUCCESS.
Rather than focusing on all the things you will not and can not be to him/her, focus on taking a Doctorate in your partner, truly learning him/her, so you can...
Be Her/His Ant
So, as a Coach who is also a Psychotherapist, I am often asked what kind of things to look out for when first meeting someone.
Yes, I do give some red flags, and also suggest finding out about their family dynamics, what roles they play, how they deal with conflict and how it is dealt with within their family, and of course, paying attention to some more key issues 😉. If you want to know more, feel free to message me and let's book a session.
Treat yourself the way you want to be treated. It is truly that simple. Do others tend to ignore you? Well, do you ignore yourself sometimes? Do others take advantage of you? Well, do you overlook and/or push yourself too hard sometimes? Do others forget about you? Well, do you forget about your own needs, health, appointments & care sometimes? It always starts with self. May you have a blessed and productive day ahead; one that truly exceeds all expectations, and starts with