No one knows exactly how much time they have been given to walk the Earth, therefore, time and energy are priceless. Yet we learn to put value on them through employment (the wage/payment you accept is what you value your time and energy at), and we learn to keep watering the dead weeds when we believe people and things can blossom if we just keep pouring time and energy (our water) into them, long after they have become weeds (distant, unproductive, abusive, draining and/or dead).
All of this is lovely in theory, but you see, the more you pour onto a closed flower bed, the more water you waste, and the more likely you are to encourage weeds. What does this mean? Some people are not and may never be open to being 'watered' - they either refuse to allow the
connections, or are so fearful of them, that they sabotage them when they become too real or too intimate. You continuing to fight their survival instinct to close up and shut off, by watering
them, might not only drown them, but leave you with less water to nourish the actual flowers that blossom in your life.
KNOW WHEN TO STOP WATERING.
With that said, I am wishing you a blessed and productive day ahead; one that truly exceeds all expectations.
From Novena-Chanel Davies, The Equilibrium Coach - The Goal Architect to Mind, Body, Spirit, Life Balance® - www.theequilibriumcoach.com
Copyright © 2018. Novena-Chanel Davies. All Rights Reserved.
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